These past two months have been full of trips to see family/friends, celebrations of various accomplishments and milestones, new challenges at work, and (sadly) only brief moments to see and spend time with my husband. As I was flying home on the plane yesterday, after a weekend of non-stop movement in Ohio that resulted in my complete exhaustion, all I could think of is that I felt full. Not tired. Not frustrated. Not stressed. Just full.
I've been busy as hell, but I have no room to complain about the people and activities in my life that have kept me so busy. I'm damn lucky, and I am reminded of that every moment that I am with my husband, my family, and my friends.
And now, back to plotting for my next adventure this weekend...
Well, these days I've been riding the bus to work which turns my 20-minute commute to an hour plus commute, which means, I've got a lot of free time while being a consumer of the public transit. The problem is, I can't read on a bus without getting motion sick. (Oh, how I wish this weren't the case, because I have a *ton* of books just waiting to be read!) Music is good, but I think I might want to get into some podcasts that could keep me occupied. Books on iPod are also looking mighty appealing right now...
Any recommendations, dear LJ friends?
(1) Bottle our first batch of beer.
(2) Go to Snoqualmie Falls for the first time.
(3) Eat at my new favorite neighborhood place to get brunch (mmm..).
(4) Explore Madison Park and a cool gardening shop.
(5) Clean out our "back yard."
(6) Book reservations for a weekend in Victoria next weekend.
(7) Celebrate Chris' big work accomplishment.
(8) Get gardening advice from Amy that I hope to take advantage of in the next couple of weeks. :)
(9) Breathe and truly enjoy my Sunday.
(10) Hang out and laugh with a friend from out-of-town.
(11) Go to a Mariner's game where they ACTUALLY won.
(12) Walk on campus for the first time in months and remind myself of how beautiful UW is.
(13) Talk on the phone with my best friend (first time in over a month!).
(14) Pick out and send flowers for my mother-in-law's birthday.
Awesome weekend. :) So glad it's summer, finally!
We landed about 1PM Danish time, which is 2AM PST if I've done my math correctly. We hopped a cab to the hotel, which is very Ikea-esque. Everything is colorful, and all the furniture has rounded edges. The bathroom is even colorful, but very tiny. I have a few favorite things about my hotel room:
(1) You have to put your keycard into a slot by the front door in order for ANY of the electricity to work. Not only does this help you keep track of your card, but it also prevents any guest to leave any electricity running once they have left their room. Brilliant.
(2) The light switch design is very UCD. There are light switches most everywhere in the room...about 5 in my tiny room in total. But, on the side of my bed stand closest to me, there is one final switch that is marked differently. When you hit that switch, all the lights go out in the room.
Once we got showered and checked email, a coworker of mine and I went off to explore. We walked around this shopping area which is full of pedestrian alley ways that are filled with people. At first it was a little overwhelming to be around so many people. (Imagine Pike Market at full capacity in peak of summer...) We kept trying to find a drugstore so my coworker could get some hair goop that he forgot at home, which was harder than we thought it would be. We asked the concierge for a drug store, and he gave us easy directions to one. Sure enough, it was literally just that--a *drug* store. Only sold drugs.
One cool thing about Copenhagen is their bike system. There is a wide bike lane on every street I've seen, and bikes everywhere. They also have an honor system of bikes throughout the city--special city bikes that are chained up to most bike racks that anyone is free to use. You're only asked to chain it back up at any bike rack once you're finished. We plan to test out this system tomorrow.
We went to dinner at a pub and got some Americanized pub grub (ew). Tomorrow, we are determined to find a genuine Danish place, which is hard to track down in this area of town.
Everyone speaks English. We were asked by our server (who we later learned was Greek, but learned English by living in London for a few years) if we were Americans. We all in unison responded with, "yes" in a tail-between-our-legs tone. He responded with, "Why is that? Every time I ask if someone is American, they always seem so embarassed by it." My co-worker responded with, "Ask us in the next election, and maybe that response will change."
On a brighter note, spring is coming. Just a little longer...
From: Sue
Re: Reporting from the Washington Caucus...
who did you vote for?
Sophia and I voted in our primary this week; she told me to vote for "Obama" and the "sticker man" (the man running for city counsel who lives on our street, and he gives her his campaign stickers whenever he sees her!). She knows who to vote for!
However, she was disappointed when we went to the polls; she said, "where is the water!" She thought that I had said that we were going to "boat", not "vote." The people around us a the polling station thought that she was very funny!
I love the craziness that this world brings me. And no matter how hard I try, life is *never* predictable.
I love that when I drive to work in the morning, I can smell coffee from the highway as I pass the Tully's building.
I love creating new relationships with strangers and maintaining those rare lifetime friendships that I cherish so much.
I love beating my husband in Scrabble (just once).
I love.
I am the happiest I've been in a long time, and I credit my happiness to my own life choices. The people I choose to surround myself with. The situations I choose to put myself in. The perspective I choose to take in stressful situations. The way I choose to see myself and show myself to others. Happiness is a choice, it's just a difficult one to make and execute. I'm glad I finally got it right this time.
optimistic"We are confronted with the doubters. People who tells us what we can't do. You're not ready. You're not good enough. You're not smart enough. You're too tall. Each and every one of you here has heard and felt those ceilings, somebody pushing you down, defining your limitations, who are you? You know damn well what you are capable of doing... This election is just as much about that as it is about change because the truth is there are millions of shining little lights just like me all over this country. Kids living in the shadows, being told by their own communities what they can and cannot do. This is an opportunity for all of us to send a different message to all those shining lights."
-Michelle Obama
This was quoted in an article about Michelle Obama and her support on the campaign trail. I really liked this quote from one of her speeches. It doesn't have much to do with her husband's political platform, but I think it sends out a positive message that will (hopefully) target all of those female voters out there. It's more inspiring than policitcally motivating.
This winter has been a really easy one to get through, and I give credit to a few things:
Exercising. I think letting all those endorphins out to play has really improved my overall state of mind.
Drinking less coffee and more tea. I limit myself to one cup of coffee a day, and then I go to green tea for the rest of the day.
More free time to do things for *me*. This is my first winter out of grad school, and it's still novel to have time to read for pleasure, go to the gym, hang out with friends on week nights (omg), etc.
Eating better. Over the past couple of months, I've been more conscious of what I buy at the store and have been trying to eat healthier at home. The one thing I could do better, however, is eat out less.
Watching less TV. It hit me a few weeks back that I've been watching a lot of TV. On week days especially, I've been trying to keep the TV turned off less and do alternative activities like playing Scrabble with C, reading, etc. I'd like to take up another hobby, like decorating our bedroom, perhaps...
The majority of these changes are mostly physical changes, but they have really affected me psychologically. It's encouraging to know that it's actually pretty easy for me to avoid the winter blues if I just stick to a few good habits.
The Iowa caucus is the top story on CNN right now. I was slightly amused by this picture with the cover story. What kind of hand gesture do you think she's making under that mitten?
This was a quote from an article I read over my lunch break today. The author of this article makes the point that in order to be truly successful, you have to be willing to fail and take failure as a lesson learned and as a closer step towards ultimate success. She goes on to say, "If you see failure as a monster stalking you, or one that has already ruined your life, take another look. That monster can become a benevolent teacher, opening your mind to successes you cannot now imagine."
In other words, if we live life always fearing and hiding from failure, can we ever be truly successful? Without taking those risks, can you ever attain what you really want?
This year, I'd like to take more risks. I think that might involve being more assertive at work in order to get the satisfaction and fulfillment I deserve in my professional life. And on that note, lunch break is over.
blah -Taking a trip to Europe with Chris.
-Reaching my one-year anniversary with my job.
-Working hard to keep old friendships alive, letting go of those friendships that are one-sided, and learning to know the difference.
-Continuing with my “resolution” I made back in October to work out on a regular basis. (It’s going well!)
-Hiking with my dad.
-Seeing my little sister-in-law graduate from HS and go off to college.
-Watching Sophia continue to grow up faster than I can keep track of.
-Reading all the books on my bookshelf. (I’m with you on this one, Fraxl.)
-Having a girls’ trip with Erica.
-Continuing to save for a house.
-Bringing Chris to Ohio to (finally) meet my extended family.
I wouldn’t call these resolutions, moreso just a “to do” list for 2008. So I beg the question, what’s a resolution? Well, I looked it up. (Yep, two TC degrees over here. I’m a nerd and I know it.)
Main Entry: res·o·lu·tion
Pronunciation: \ˌre-zə-ˈlü-shən\
Function: noun
1: the act or process of resolving: as a: the act of analyzing a complex notion into simpler ones b: the act of answering c: the act of determining d: the passing of a voice part from a dissonant to a consonant tone or the progression of a chord from dissonance to consonance e: the separating of a chemical compound or mixture into its constituents f (1): the division of a prosodic element into its component parts (2): the substitution in Greek or Latin prosody of two short syllables for a long syllable g: the analysis of a vector into two or more vectors of which it is the sum
The definition that best describes a New Year’s resolution to me is: “the act of analyzing a complex notion into simpler ones.” This definition should be my resolution. Always try to simplify my life so that I can spend more time savoring in those moments that matter most. And, I think that my above to do list will help me accomplish that.
To that, I’ll clink my glass of bubbly. Cheers!
BERLIN - A man nearly died from alcohol poisoning after quaffing a liter (two pints) of vodka at an airport security check instead of handing it over to comply with new carry-on rules, police said Wednesday.
The incident occurred at the Nuremberg airport on Tuesday, where the 64-year-old man was switching planes on his way home to Dresden from a holiday in Egypt.
New airport rules prohibit passengers from carrying larger quantities of liquid onto planes, and he was told at a security check he would have to either throw out the bottle of vodka or pay a fee to have his carry-on bag checked as cargo.
Instead, he chugged the bottle down — and was quickly unable to stand or otherwise function, police said.
A doctor called to the scene determined he had possibly life-threatening alcohol poisoning, and he was sent to a Nuremberg clinic for treatment.
The man, whose name was not released, is expected to be able to complete his journey home in a few days.
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/vodka_quaff;_
now i don’t lightly use words like forever
but i will love you ‘til the end of today
and in the morning when i remember everything that you are
well i know i’ll fall for you over again
now i know someday this all will be over
and it’s hard to say what most will i miss
just give me one way to spend my last moments alive
and i choose this, i choose this, i choose this
i choose this, i choose this, i choose this
i choose this, i choose this, yeah i choose…
this
(David Ford)
Sophia is a ball full of energy and brightness. She makes me laugh more than any almost-three-year-old can.
I have wonderful friends who keep my smiling long after they have left.
I also have wonderful friends who help me when I need it most. (Thanks,
Things can always be worse than they are. Always.
happyheading to richmond soon for a college reunion (also read as "wedding"). i'm super excited to see these folks again.
this wine is really good. yummy, in fact.
how does work manage to stress me out nearly as much as school did? i thought i was over that part. =/
can't wait to see my sophia in a few weeks. yay for business trips taking place where family is. :)
fry's is the geek's haven. (went there for the FIRST time last weekend.)
This is just one example of how technology (and the Internet, specifically) has contributed towards helping people deal with one of the most devastating emotions out there: grief. Not only does his profile act as a "memory book" on how he saw himself before his death through his posted pictures and words, it also acts as an informal support group for those family and friends he left behind. I can only assume that the founders of Facebook didn't see this as potential use for their social networking site, but it is. Same goes for blogs, personal websites, and even instant messaging profiles (I actually was informed of another friend's death through an away message that his girlfriend posted using his screen name).
These makeshift memorials have made coping easier for people who don't have a support system of other grieving family and friends readily available. They also act as shared artifacts that everyone can refer to (and contribute to) as time passes. They are living, breathing memorials that live as long as their contributing authors allow them to, and that's a beautiful thing.
Of course, the Internet has also provided other coping tools for grieving: online support groups, personal/group blogs, and articles on the topic, to name a few. But how have these new tools for grieving affected how people grieve in our society? Has it made it easier or just more public? Are people more willing to accept support when they can do it from the privacy of their own laptop? Or has it somehow "cheapened" the grieving process? Obviously, it depends on the individual. But I think it's an interesting concept to think about...just another way the Internet has changed the way we live (whether we like it or not).
pensiveThings have going so great lately, that I'm starting to get suspicious that this good fortune will soon run out...
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